WHAT MEN NEED TO KNOW ABOUT WOMEN & ATTRACTION

WHAT MEN NEED TO KNOW ABOUT WOMEN & ATTRACTION

I'd like to tell you a story...

It's a story that you might find strangely familiar. Don't be alarmed.

Once upon a time, there was a man who was very attracted to a particular woman.

At first, she was just another attractive woman... but the more he got to know her, the more he began to feel attracted to her... and the more time he spent with her, the more that attraction grew into a deep emotional attachment and affection for her.

But there was one problem.

As his emotional attachment grew stronger and stronger, he also grew more and more insecure.

Why?

Because he couldn't tell whether or not she felt the same way towards him.

Sometimes she would say things like "You are so important to me" and "I'm glad that you're in my life"... but nothing ever progressed past the "friendship" stage.

There was an occasional hug, smile from her... and once she even held his hand for a long time while he talked about an emotional issue.

But something was wrong with the picture.

She just wasn't acting like a woman that was "falling in love". She was acting like a friend.

The insecurity that he felt became a spiral that amplified itself... and the more insecure he became, the more afraid he grew of "screwing things up" by asking her to be his girlfriend.

After spending many days and nights obsessing her, the man finally arrived at the conclusion that if she only knew how HE FELT, that she would feel the same way.

{Wrong move again}

So he made a bold move.

He TOLD HER how he felt.

He confessed that he was in love, and that he would do anything to be with her.

She looked at him with compassion in her eyes and said "Thank you... I really mean that... but I don't want to mess up our friendship... you're too important to me...".

This only confused the man more.

He didn't know how to take it...

Did it mean that she really loved him too, but that she was afraid of something?

Did it mean that she wasn't ready for a long term relationship?

Did it mean that she didn't love him, but that she was trying to give him a hint?

Did it mean that he hadn't tried hard enough?

Did it mean that he needed to put everything on the line and REALLY let her know how he felt? This is where guys make another mistake especially the ones that feel they have cash! When a lady tells you such a thing, then you have to leave the love issue be and never talk about again but majority of men still persist!

He finally decided that he couldn't go on like this anymore... he had to be with her.

He had to make sure that she knew just how much he wanted to be with her... so he took a big step {wrong step}, bought her a symbolic gift, and wrote her a long, long love letter... again confessing his feelings.

And then the unthinkable happened.

She didn't reply. {Typical of a woman who’s not attracted/interested in a man}

He called her three times a day for almost a week before reaching her. She made an excuse about being very busy, and said "I'll try to give you a call soon, I have to go" and hung up, but he never got a call back from her.

Over the following months, the man tried desperately to understand what went wrong... and what happened.

THE END!

OK, I'm back.

Now, wasn't that a sweet story?

Now, let's talk about that story.

That story is basically a MYTH.

And I'm not talking about FICTION here.

I'm talking about a story that rings true for a great majority of men. A story that is timeless.

A story that resonates at a deep level because you can IDENTIFY with it. And why does this particular story resonate for most men? Because most men have encountered such in one way or another... at one time or another... and many have experienced such OFTEN in their lives. Another thing that gives this particular story a lot of power is the powerful negative emotions that it stirs up, as a result of the powerful negative experiences that it reminds us of. Stories and situations like this one really FASCINATE me. They fascinate me because I see them as an opportunity to UNDERSTAND and SOLVE the puzzles that they represent.

In this particular situation I think there is a solution and it lies in understanding a secret that women know but MEN DON'T and need to know. And that secret comes down to the reality that if a woman isn't ATTRACTED to a man, all of his attempts to confess his love, convince her to like him and court her BACKFIRES. In other words, they not only DON'T WORK, they actually make things WORSE. In other words, the very things that a man does to try to make a woman LIKE HIM make her NOT like him & make her run away.  It sucks.

And I hope that by explaining the process of how this happens to the men, I'll help them avoid this painful situation in their present and future lives

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THE "QUICK DAUGHH"

I'm always fascinated by the idea that we humans don't always understand the message that we're communicating to others. So often we think that because we WANT to communicate a message that others are going to NATURALLY understand what we're trying to say.

Have you ever seen a guy in a foreign car that has wheels on it that costs more than the car itself?

Have you ever thought to yourself "I don't think that car is communicating the message to women that the owner thinks it is" Yes, I have too.

Well here's the deal:

If you do something to "let a woman know how you feel" but she isn't ATTRACTED to you, then it's going to backfire.

It's going to trigger a feeling that I like to call the "Quick Daughh".

The Quick Daughh is just as powerful as the physical and emotional response of ATTRACTION.

Once a woman feels it for you, YOU'RE DONE. It's over.

Once a woman feels the Quick Daughh, she will start behaving differently. In short, she'll disappear. So where did the Quick Daughh idea come from?

It came from WOMEN.

I have actually heard SEVERAL women use the word "Daughh" when describing how they felt about a guy that was "confessing his love"... of course, these were guys that weren't loved in return. So what causes the Quick Daughh? And why would a woman feel it towards a man who was trying to be nice... a guy who was giving her a gift or telling her how he feels? Because if you think about it from HER perspective, you'll realize that the moment you do something to "confess", you have created a TURNING POINT in the relationship. Up until that point, you were harmless.

I mean, most women always know how men feel. She already knew you wanted her. She knew it from the beginning, but she wouldn’t say or speak. But now that you've started pursuing her and talking about how you feel, you've created a NEGATIVE TENSION that is VERY uncomfortable. You've triggered an emotion that is repulsive to women. And it does repel them.

In summary

You can't "make a woman like you" or "change how she feels about you" by doing nice things for her. Doing "nice" things for a woman doesn’t make her like you or hate you but being yourself always when with her, turns her on but in her womanly nature, conceals it for some weird or wonderful reasons known or unknown to her. Men make this mistake over and over again in life because they're doing what MAKES SENSE to them. They're doing it because they don't have an understanding of ATTRACTION. I mean, If you have a friend, and you like them, and you want to make them like you more and you do some nice things for them, they will probably like you more.

On the other hand

If you have a woman that you "like" in a romantic way, and she doesn't "feel it" for you, and you do something nice for her because you want HER to like you more, it will BACKFIRE... and she will not only NOT like you more, she will most likely distance herself from you.

{Let her be and you will be amazed what follows, give her some space}

Men think that they need to communicate when they like a woman, as if that's part of the necessary process of getting a lady. In their minds, it goes like this:

Like her>Tell her you like her>She likes you {It doesn’t work like that}

Well remember, if you follow this pattern yourself with women who aren't ATTRACTED to you, then it's going to BACKFIRE. If she's not into you, then it goes like THIS:

She thinks of you as a friend> You tell her you like her> She gives you the “Quick Daughh” and never wants to be around you again...

THE ANSWER

There are really TWO answers to this problem.

The FIRST Answer

The first answer is what to do if you're in a situation where you like a particular girl but you don't know if she likes you back.

Ø  DON'T GET HEAVY WITH HER.

Ø  Don’t send her sms’s.

Ø  Don't buy her big gifts or write love letters.

Ø  Don't send her ten dozen roses to her work with a note that says "From your secret admirer".

Ø  Don't call her three times a day.

Ø  DON'T CONFESS YOUR LOVE for her.

Just let her be for a while. Que Sera, Sera.

Don't get heavier than HER. Use SIGNALS from her to find out how she feels and if you don't know how to read and create those signals, then LEARN by not paying attention to her words but pay more attention to her actions around you.

Asking a woman if she's interested in you in a romantic way, or if you are "her type" will actually DESTROY the chances that she'll like you.

The SECOND Answer

The SECOND answer is to not get into the above situation in the FIRST PLACE. Avoid it entirely. And how does one do that?

Ø  One does that by creating ATTRACTION from the beginning with the lady.

Ø  One does that by understanding the dynamics of how and why women have the physical and emotional response of ATTRACTION triggered.

Ø  One does that by knowing what he's doing FROM THE BEGINNING i.e. defining what he wants from the relationship and lady at the beginning and not along the way, starts developing a funny feeling.

And what's the best way to learn THAT skill?

I thought you'd never ask...

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What you DO have to do is LEARN.

It's a skill, and I honestly believe that ANY man can learn it if he wants. But you're not likely to figure it out by "trial and error". Many of the keys to making women feel ATTRACTION aren't "obvious" at all. In fact, many of them make no sense, and they're the LAST thing you'd do in a particular situation if you don't know the SECRETS.

And once you know the secrets, will INSTANTLY change the way you behave around women and seek not unnecessary attention when in their midst or gatherings and it will start getting you results IMMEDIATELY.